moonstar

Hey Guys, <br/> <br/> Just in case anyone reads these, I thought I share a little about myself. But first, let me share what I've learned from you gentleman. I have made some extraordinary friends on here. Not fwb, genuine friends. As a woman, it'd difficult at times to trust a man, especially on line. What you gentleman have taught me, is its equally as difficult and frustrating. We all know its hard to meet people these days. Used to be we could meet at a bar, or even late night at a grocery store. However, online can be rewarding if you learn to follow your intuition. Every one is on here for something different. In the end we all hope to find someone to spend time with, or just once in awhile. How many of us have been in a once loving relationship, then turns cold and unfeeling? I was. Life is too short to be unhappy. So, I left the marriage. He is a good man, but not the man for me. Because he couldn't express his feelings... he withdrew, making me feel unwanted and unloved. And, when he did talk it was in anger and throwing things until it got to the point I needed to save myself, and get out of the situation. Later, after we divorced. He then chose to tell me how much he loved and needed me. Of course, by then I had already healed and moved on. How many have you felt ignored, unappreciated, or frustrated in a relationship? I can tell you, from talking with men just like you.. that most of you have. That's the biggest misconception about relationships. So often the man gets the blame, in reality most were provoked either by anger or being completely ignored with their gf/wife. Let me tell you... there is hope. First, it must come within. Each of you are amazing in your own way. Let go of any negative thoughts about yourself and embrace how wonderful you truly are. And for the gentleme seriously looking for long term, find the girl who respects herself. If she does, then she has inner strength. And that means she is genuinely happy and you can just be yourself. I'm not preaching at all... Everyone deserves happiness including you. Who am I to say all of this? Just a go looking for her partner in fun and love. Because I deserve it and so do you.<br/>Best wishes on your journey,<br/>Sherilynn